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The Ceremony
Traditional
Church Weddings
The choice of a church is usually
based on a religious belief of either the bride or groom,
or both. Many couples usually choose
to me married in the church they are currently attending or in the
church either family may have attended for years.
Couples desiring a religious ceremony without a particular church in
mind, must try to
find a church that will marry non-members or begin a relationship with a
particular church or clergy member.
Home Weddings
Having a home wedding offers the
couple and their guest intimacy, comfort, and a familiar
setting for family and friends. Using your imagination you can
create a casual setting to a backyard gala
or even an elegant formal affair with the help of a caterer, decorator,
rental company and other wedding professionals.
Outdoor Weddings
A beautiful wedding can be held
almost anywhere (by obtaining permission first).
If you are considering a site that does not have a shelter, you can
always contact a rental company
to rent tents and other shelters.
Officiants
Ceremony officiants range from
those dedicated to a particular religion or church, to civil servants
that will perform a ceremony
strictly based on law without any religious content. For those wanting
to include religion in a non-sectarian sense, ceremony
officiants exist who can fulfill those needs. These reverends and other
clergypersons will help couples by performing
ceremonies that will include a general religious message without
referencing any specific religion. Often these officiants
will go to unique sites to perform a ceremony or may have connections
with a particular church where they can also perform
the ceremony if the couple desires.
Vows
Express you love in your own words.
Your officiant will help you get started in preparing your own special
message.
For church weddings, the couple should discuss with the clergy member on
any specific
wording they may want to use in their vows.
Unique Ideas
You can create your special day by creating a unique
atmosphere that matches your personality.
Are you hockey fans?..... belong to a team?
A hockey stick archway by your teammates..... or really go funky and
have your officiant dress up in a referees shirt.
Elegant parties with balloon arches and flowers can change any
atmosphere.
The releasing of white Doves can add a beautiful touch symbolizing
love, hope, peace and harmony.
The ideas are endless!
If you are stuck for ideas, talk to a wedding professional, they will
help you
with some really unique ideas.
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